一键总结音视频内容
Attention is All you Need
摘要
In the video, the author discusses the gender imbalance in the matchmaking market and the reasons why some men are reluctant to participate in matchmaking events. According to a survey conducted by a dating website, the gender ratio in 26 out of 30 major cities in China is skewed towards women, with the most extreme case being Chengdu where the male to female ratio is as high as 1:43. The author argues that while both genders have conditions that they look for in a partner, men's conditions tend to be less visible, which leads them to present themselves in a more forceful way during matchmaking events. The author also notes that men may feel a deeper sense of shame and embarrassment when it comes to matchmaking and that this shame is often overlooked.
亮点
- 💔 Many matchmaking markets have a high number of female participants compared to male participants.
- 🧍♀️🧍♂️ Men and women have different conditions that they look for in a partner, and these conditions are often more visible for women than for men.
- 😳 Men may feel a deeper sense of shame and embarrassment when it comes to matchmaking and this is often overlooked.
- 💬 Teaching women to take marriage and relationships seriously may help to reduce the shame experienced by men in the matchmaking process.
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